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I found out about it 3 years ago, and now the Sex Addiction has reared it’s ugly head. About 2 years ago, I moved to his home country with him and now we are married, no kids, a house and 2 great jobs. I would say that I am attractive, smart and successful myself.
I have been with my husband for 5 1/2 years and we met while I was in university. Together, from the outside, we must look like the perfect couple. 3 years ago, while we still lived in the US, I found out something extremely shocking.
He spoils me in every way and I love him very much. Then earlier this week I was on the computer again and his work email was up. 99.9% was work, but there was 3 email exchanges that he had had with a brief girlfriend back in the states that I opened – he had just written them day before. She had originally contacted him, asking him how he was.
He started to bring up history – most shockingly, he told her that HE WAS NOT MARRIED, but he “lived with a girl”.
He came home about 15 minutes later and I flipped out. A few days have gone by and I’m convinced he has a sex addiction.
I continued to look at the emails – to see how long he had been doing this and found that it went back to when we first started dating.The reason that I believe him is that he agreed to all of my boundaries and has even signed the document.I told him that I will keep this document in a safe place. If you do read this, thank you so much for listening (or reading? You have completely lost my trust and we have to start from scratch, basically.I am going to get tested for all STDs next week to make sure that I’m safe. Most importantly, the number one reason that you should start treatment and healing is FOR YOURSELF.Our marriage and relationship is a bonus and also can be reasons for seeking help, but you cannot live like this forever, and that’s the reason you need help.