Dating fellow worker
This is more of a rant or a way to release the feelings that I have regarding this issue.
My ex girlfriend and I dated for over a year and a half and lived together for damn near that whole time broke up in August..was not a horrible breakup, but it wasn't great either.
You will go right back to being roommates, except with deep-seeded passive aggression and resentment. The chances that this person has actually changed from the person you broke up with and swore you’d never speak to again are pretty slim.
But if you insist that this time really is different, then just be smart about it.
You already know, and you clearly don’t care, so it’s a giant waste of our time. Keeping it a secret as long as possible is one way to successfully navigate this disaster of a minefield.
Instead we’re here with some sound advice on how you can try to pluck these forbidden fruits without ruining your life. You spend more time on a weekly basis with these people than any other human you interact with, so sexual tension is bound to ensue. Not only are you spending eight hours a day with this person, but then you are expected to spend your free time with them.
It was “the best night of your entire life,” you’ll tell your friends with a melancholy sigh while they roll their eyes.The minute homeboy sees you look at his sister the same way you look at the hot bartender or a big pile of wings, your cover is completely blown.If you and his sister have already professed your love to each other, you could approach your buddy together so that he knows everyone is on the same page and you’re not being a creepy perv.Shit I've worked with 3 of the five guys for over 2 years now. Most of corporate American does not want to hear about your personal problems. "Since then I've talked to my boss about transfering and have told both my ex girlfriend and my co worker who's office is right next to mine to fuck off and don't ever talk to me. You have to let it go, and not let it interfere with your work, or else find somewhere else to work. The good news is that after you get fired you are free to kick the shit out of the douche bag frat boy and let your ex know she is a cunt. 6 billion people in the world and you 3 want to play hide the sausage with co-workers in the same office?!?! So let me get this straight, You wouldn't let her move back in to your place, so she was still sort of digging you, right?If you are going to "dip the pen in the company ink" you need to seperate work and love. Dated a bunch of people within the company and so did my wife. The "don't ever talk to me" crap among people who have to work together is pretty juvenile. I know it sucks but you are going to have to man up and deal with it. 6 billion people in the world and you 3 want to play hide the sausage with co-workers in the same office?!?! I'd play this card, call for a meeting for all 3 of you and play this card: Menage au Trois. If it doesn't and her new meathead says anything he is going to look like a douche, so again, you're welcome.